I am the stereotypical male – I don’t like reading instructions. There are times when this has served me well (saved time and increased my confidence in not reading instructions). There have been other times when it was costly – much time was wasted and after several “do-overs” I still had to read the instructions. This of course fuels the argument of loved ones to read the instructions first.
Having said that, I needed to replace the headlight on my car – a simple operation – until I looked under the hood to gain access. From my first observations, it appeared I would have to remove the battery and perhaps another unknown obstruction (I’m not a mechanic) in order to reach the old bulb. There had to be a better way (besides it was bitterly cold outside). So I did the unthinkable. I open the owners manual to look for instructions. There they were – I was relieved. the battery didn’t have to come out. Remove two screws, pull the headlamp housing out, unplug the electrical supply, replace the bulb and reassemble. Great! I can do this.
The screws came out easily but the headlamp housing did not want to leave its position. It would wriggle but it appeared there was not enough clearance for it to be removed. After several attempts, I put the screws back in and drove to the dealership to ask for further instructions (this is out of character) and hoping they would offer to replace the bulb for me (I wasn’t about to ask). They didn’t offer and the instructions included removing a series of screws to loosen the front grill and another piece of framing around the front of the engine. The technician gave me assurance (not help) that I could do the job.
Back in my driveway I opened the hood again. Now I have two sets of instructions – the one in the manual and the ones from the experienced technician. I removed the two screws per the owners manual and removed the next screw as advised by the technician. As soon as I removed it, I could see that even if I removed all the screws on the grill, it would not free the headlamp. I replaced that screw.
I went back to the original instructions – remove to screws and pull headlamp out. With the screws out, I took a firm grip on the headlamp and yanked – it came out! The instructions worked! The technician was wrong and I got it right. I was battling a bit of pride.
I replaced the bulb, put the headlamp in place, reset the screws, turned the lights on and they didn’t work (that fixed the pride issue). At least now I knew how to remove the headlamp. I took it out again and found that I had failed to reconnect the electrical supply. I took care of that, put everthing back together and turned the lights on. They didn’t work. I had actually replaced the wrong bulb. I repeated the process – this time checking to see if the lights worked before replacing the headlamp. Everything worked!!!
There are several things I have thought about through this experience. It is O.K. to follow instructions. When the instructions seem difficult to follow or do not seem to working, the problem may not be with the instructions but with the one trying to follow them. Successfully following instructions is not a cause for great pride.
There are lessens to be learned – God’s instructions are not always easy and sometimes may actually seem not to work. The problem is not with the instructions. When I follow His plans and find they do work, it is not an occasion for personal pride but for thanksgiving for His help and seeking Him for next steps.